Awakening Your Authentic Erotic Expression

A meticulously crafted 12-week journey designed exclusively for curious, heart-led, driven women who desire to thrive in her erotic wholeness.

Awakening is for the woman who find herself yearning to unlock her sensual creativity to discover the pleasure, radical self-love and authenticity she’s been missing.

The heart of this journey lies in the profound desire to forge deeper emotional connections, both with oneself and loved ones.

Taught by Jo Portia Mayari, at the core of this live course experience lies our transformative approach, blending ancient wisdom with modern insights to unlock the door to your authentic erotic expression to give you the wholeness you’ve always wanted (and always deserved).

You are deserving of love, orgasmic abundance, and the freedom to explore pleasure in your body and I’m going to show you how.

Awakening is for you if you want to:

  • Feel empowered, confident, and connected to your erotic power, freedom, and fullest self-expression.

  • Release the fear, shame, and judgment that has kept you feeling small and disempowered in your relationships, your body, and your life.

  • Experience more pleasure, more satisfaction, deeper connection, and appreciation of your body and soul

  • Experience soul-satisfying pleasure and creativity into your work so you get things done with less striving, more ease.

  • MAKE LOVE TO YOURSELF DELICIOUSLY AND FUCK YOURSELF DELIRIOUSLY

During the 12 weeks in Awakening you will:

  • Learn that your desires are not shameful but a vital source of self-love and empowerment. 

  • Dismantle the shame and guilt that have held you back, fully embracing your authentic erotic expression.

  • Become more confident, assertive, and unapologetic in expressing your needs and desires as the visionary leader of love in your relationships.

  • Develop your own profound practices and rituals that will help transform your sexuality and heal deep wounds.

  • Be a part of a private community of women who are just as curious and committed to create a well-lived, well-loved, and well-f*cked conscious life!

“Working with Jo was truly life-changing. She makes you feel loved, supported and safe to be honest and authentic self.

The sessions include breath work, meditation, inner child work and many other exercises. Each week, I walked away with a new perspective on life and relationships.

She helped me remember that my higher self knows what she wants and how to get it.

Before working with her, I was scared, hyper-vigilant, suspicious, and was stuck in a scarcity mindset. Now, I have better relationships, I communicate to people with love and clarity, and I am able to recognize the past, but not let myself live from that place of fear.

— Maria S.

When your erotic flow is unlocked, everything else falls into place: health, wealth, love… all those things we’re always striving for!

Are you ready to embrace Your Authentic Erotic Expression?

One time payment of

$3450 USD

Three Payments of

$1350 USD

Loving words from past participants

Jo sheds light around passion, pleasure and sensuality that I didn't find was a priority until our work together.

Jo has a way of creating a sacred space that allows you to feel your most true self. She is the perfect mix of professional, sensual, intelligent and playful. She allowed me to go deep in areas I wasn't expecting to go.

The techniques Jo brings to the session allowed me to drop into my body and find the answers I was looking for within myself. When I am feeling stuck, unmotivated, having a bad day or even a good day I go back to my qualities, values, deepest desires, vision, and I get to reset.

Now I realize how important pleasure is and am always looking for ways to weave it into my life.

— Nina K.

For the mamas out there, Jo brings in so much loving guidance and holding in this area.

Jo's holistic approach in my opinion what makes her such a good coach. She is leading you through healing experiences in all ways. Meditations, breath work, pleasure practices, rest, journaling, inner child wounding, mothering; it is all connected like a puzzle and I feel like Jo was able to take all these fragmented pieces that needed healing and put me back together to help me feel whole.

I was deeply lost and burnt out, and we really worked a lot on my role as a mom, how I want to mother, and how I can lead in this area with vulnerability, and calm nervous system. And now I have an arsenal of tools that I can go to on my own when I start to feel out of balance.

— Heather Y.

She has done more for me in three sessions to give me space and permission to love all my sides than in months and months of therapy!

Jo has shown me ways to become fully present and allow all sides of me to be accepted. I am just beginning the journey of knowing myself, loving myself, and giving myself permission and space to rest and find joy. She has helped me know that pleasure is safe and I love myself no matter what.

— Lynn L.

What’s inside of this live group experience?

Week 1: Discover The Power of Radical Self-Love

  • Discover practices to cultivate unconditional love for yourself, freeing yourself from past limitations.

  • Nurture a profound inner peace and wholeness through the practice of radical self-love.

  • Transform your relationship with your body and sexuality into one of joy and reverence.

Week 3: Awakening the Inner King and Queen 

  • Heal and integrate your inner masculine and feminine energies.

  • Awaken the royal sovereign beings within yourself.

  • Cultivate a harmonious balance between masculine and feminine energies.

  • Draw strength and wisdom from both energies to empower your life.

Week 5: Healing the Inner Child & the Inner Teen

  • Dive deep into healing heartbreak and attachment wounds.

  • Embrace and love your shadows as part of your journey.

  • Put self-love into practice to express yourself with confidence and authenticity.

  • Initiate a profound transformation nurturing trust in your own voice and value.

Week 7: Restoring your Erotic Expression 

  • Reclaim your sexual story by rewriting your sexual history.

  • Honor your body and sexuality through exploration and self-awareness.

  • Explore your sensual blueprint to understand your unique erotic self.

  • Express your erotic self with confidence and authenticity.

Week 9: Body as an Instrument & Pleasure as Your Sacred Practice

  • Discover the six holistic sex tools to cultivate intentional and conscious connection with your body, pleasure, and turn on.

  • Explore pleasure as a sacred practice for self-care, self-love, and self-expression.

  • Learn to tap into your sensual energy and infuse it into every aspect of your life.

Week 11: Healing Trauma with Sensual Creativity

  • Recognize and understand trauma in sexuality and the heart.

  • Discover how to heal through love and pleasure.

  • Transform your experiences into a source of strength.

  • Cultivate a well-lived, well-loved, and well-f*cked life.

Week 2: Unlocking Your Erotic Wildness & Primal Wholeness

  • Reclaim the primal and wild woman archetypes.

  • Explore the interplay between sex and the five senses.

  • Awaken your sensual instincts.

  • Relish in the raw power of your erotic wildness.

Week 4: Explore the Anatomy of Pleasure & Self-Exploration

  • Reconnect with your primal and original sexual impulses.

  • Rewrite your sexual history to honor your body and sexuality.

  • Explore your sensual blueprint.

  • Examine your conditioned experience of sexuality.

  • Use pleasure to rewire and create a new desired experience of sex and pleasure.

Week 6: Embracing the Shadow Slut

  • Uncover the Four shadows within yourself.

  • Explore the hidden science behind your subconscious thoughts and behaviors.

  • Gain tools for integrating and transforming your shadow self.

  • Transform shame, judgment, and fear with Emotional Alchemy practices

Week 8: Emotions as Power

  • Explore emotions as energy.

  • Learn methods to open your energy body for greater pleasure.

  • Deepen the intimate connection with yourself and others.

  • Master the art of emotional alchemy to navigate through feelings with grace and ease.

Week 10: Orgasmic Energy

  • Dive into Orgasms 101: Understand orgasms and the brain.

  • Tap into the transformative power of your erotism to heal and empower your creativity.

  • Learn the ingredients for a full-body orgasm.

  • Discover how to circulate the energy in your body as fuel for a life well-lived.

Week 12: Stepping into Erotic Leadership

  • Awaken a new way of being with the highest vision for yourself.

  • Learn to create an ecology of thriving and embody the Erotic Leader within yourself.

  • Inspire and lead in your own life with a renewed sense of sensuality and purpose.

  • Create a manifesto and vision statement that guides your leadership.

Plus, get these bonuses…

How to Create Daily Rituals for Erotic Self-Care

In this powerful guide you’ll learn:

  • The art of crafting rituals that cater to personal exploration, making it a consistent part of your daily life.

  • How to create personalized rituals and practices that utilize small time slots effectively, ensuring personal growth does not disrupt your daily responsibilities.

  • Seamlessly blend sensuality into your daily life, ensuring it enhances rather than overwhelms your schedule.

How to Have Healthy Conversations With Your Partner About Increasing Pleasure for Both of You

This powerful toolkit offers you:

  • Simple tools and practices for open and honest discussions about sensitive topics like desires and boundaries

  • Practical exercises to not only improve communication but also increase intimacy and trust through shared vulnerability and connection.

  • How to cultivate mutual understanding and respect, which are fundamental for a healthy relationship dynamic as partners explore new dimensions of their sensuality.

How to Cultivate Body Confidence for Sensual Exploration

A masterclass where you will learn:

  • How to build a positive body image using affirmations and mirror work, crucial for self-acceptance and erotic exploration.

  • How to create personalized rituals and practices that utilize small time slots effectively, ensuring personal growth does not disrupt your daily responsibilities.

  • Seamlessly blend sensuality into your daily life, ensuring it enhances rather than overwhelms your schedule.

But wait, there’s more!

You’ll be a part of a private community of women who, just like you, desire more for their lives and create it

Weekly rituals and practices to deepen your discovery & self-expression 

By the end of the program, you will have a manifesto that will become an embodied practice of your truths and wisdom

WHAT TO EXPECT

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This an interactive group experience that requires you to step out of your comfort zone— because you can't learn to dance unless you hit the dance floor.

WHAT’S INCLUDED

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Weekly 90-min Live Sessions Together

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Weekly Supportive Content

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Two 30-min 1:1 Coaching Conversations

Private Community Platform

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Allll of that for just…

One time payment of

$3450 USD

Three Payments of

$1350 USD

Hi, I’m The Bougie Bruja, but you can call me Jo.

MEET YOUR GUIDE

I’m a mother of two incredible non-binary teenagers who bring so much delight, joy, stress, and expansion in my life. They are my greatest teachers and the very reason why I do the work I do.

I’ve healed my relationship with my body and sexuality from being broken, confused, disconnected, and disempowered to one that is RAW, real, full of love, magic, and a dash of mischief. Healing my relationship to my sexuality has been one of the most soul-shaking and awakening journeys that continues to overflow in all the areas of my life from motherhood to entrepreneurship.

As a sexual trauma survivor and one who’s been at war with her body and mind for most of my life, I know and have experienced the healing power that radical self love, self-pleasure, and sacred sexuality has first hand. I also have experienced how pleasure can awaken different parts of body, psyche, and soul transforming every day living from dull to being so tuned in you feel connected to the universe.

As a erotic intimacy and relationship coach and sexually empowered mother my goal is simple: to empower you to change the way you experience your body and connect you to your life force energy. My approach is rooted in the desire to help you build the life you desire and help you see your own potential — regardless of whatever stands in your way.

What if I told you that self-pleasure is a radical act of self-care and self-love?

Allow your belly to soften and expand as your lungs fill with oxygen.

Pause and sit with the feeling of fullness. Feel your erotic energy and innate sensuality to take up space. When your cells are satisfied, invite your gorgeous being to empty out…let go…release.

That delicious ease of presence? The simple, yet revolutionary act of coming home to your body.

To accept the invitation to engage all of our senses in ways we’ve forgotten are even possible.

To remember how to embody our juicy, vibrant, sensual essence.

To be witnessed in our shadow and in our light.

To be validated and held by a sisterhood of soulful rebels.

And to celebrate, have fun, and get messy and explore pleasure that fuels your body and soul.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Everything is online in my Zoom Room and you’ll be in the privacy of your own home to touch yourself, be with yourself, and all that deliciousness.

  • Sundays at 9AM PT starting June 9th until August 25, 2024.

  • Each week we’ll get comfy and cozy for a 90 minute video session through Zoom, where I will start off with talk and theory.

    The first half of each session will be be open, raw, unfiltered interaction about the topics introduced along with whatever comes bursting up for you.

    The second half we drop out of our minds and into our bodies with a sensual embodiment or self-pleasure practice.

  • No more than 24 intentionally curated group of heart-led women.

  • I recommend putting aside 4 hours every week to get the most out of this experience. Like anything else, the more you put into the experience, the more you will get out of it.

  • This experience is open to women and femmes who have pussies & want to expand their pleasure.

    You are more than welcome to join if you are okay with me being an active learner who is very open to feedback.

  • Yes! My kids are queer. I myself identify as a queer bisexual woman and welcome all sexual orientations to be part of the mischief.

  • Jo is dedicated to delivering impactful support, and personalized laser sessions (15-20 minute coaching calls) are accessible as needed throughout the entire experience.

    Additionally, each participant will receive two 90-minute individual coaching sessions me.

  • Commitment is the backbone and driving force of achievement.

    If I told you you would get $100K for participating all the live sessions what question would you be asking me right now?

    Notice that.

    Would you still ask the same question? or simply commit to making it happen?

    This is your life. It’s worth more than $100K.

  • Skin friendly oil (jojoba, almond, coconut)

    A glass or crystal dildo or any sex toys you want to use (optional) I prefer Chakrubs and you can use BOUGIE10 to get 10% off your order

    Your messy, curious, and beautiful self.

  • The committed participants have come up with all kinds of creative ways to pay for their experience. They take massive action—and it’s so worth figuring out.

    The personal transformation you'll experience in this program will be so profound you would pay 3 times the investment!

  • Come to my Awaken Your Erotic Power Workshop! It will give you a taste of what you’ll experience in Awakening.

    This workshop will be held on May 8, 2024, at 3 PM PT, and it is FREE. Register here.

  • Absolutely. Something magical happens when you allow yourself to be open and vulnerable with other people—especially ones who are on the same journey as you.

    This will be a safe and loving playground for you to step into your power and play—and you will make extraordinary connections that nourish your heart, body, and soul.