YOUR BODY IS AN INSTRUMENT OF POWER, PLEASURE, AND BOUNDLESS POTENTIAL

You can only gain clarity and wisdom to know what to do if you get intimate with yourself.

Sensuality is how you tune your instrument to play the notes more harmoniously.

ABOUT JO

Jo Portia Mayari is the boardroom and bedroom’s best kept secret. She is an electric, provocative, and fierce globally renowned Erotic Intimacy & Leadership Coach, on a mission to guide high-achieving women into reclaiming their sensuality, power, and authentic self-expression.

With a background in Somatic Integrative Therapy and Tantra, Jo helps women break free from societal conditioning and embrace their erotic essence. Her own journey—surviving childhood trauma and navigating a pandemic divorce—has shaped her compassionate, no-nonsense coaching style. A devoted mother to two non-binary daughters, Jo creates safe, transformative spaces for healing and liberation.

Her 20 years of experience, bold leadership, and personal evolution make her a sought-after guide for those ready to embrace Erotic Leadership and embody their full potential. Recognized as one of the top 20 wellness role models by Arianna Huffington, Jo has collaborated with top brands like Nike and Burt’s Bees, helping women lead with wisdom and radical self-love.

Jo believes that true leadership isn’t just about what you do, but who you become when you unlock your erotic power. She’s here to help you lead unapologetically and create a life that feels as good as it looks.

Services

  • The Ascension Session

    An 90-minute integrative somatic session to dive straight into what’s most alive in you right now. 

    During our session we will explore your connection to your body, heart, mind, and soul seeking ways to enhance your self- intimacy to improve your relationship to self and others.

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  • The Breakthrough Day

    A two night private retreat style immersive where the agenda is YOU.

    Imagine stepping into a private sanctuary where every moment is designed for your soul care, where you are seen, supported, and empowered to release the old stories that have kept you stuck through sacred ritual and ceremony. This is your time to prioritize yourself, to reconnect with your body, and to awaken your sensual power, pleasure, and purpose.

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  • Private 1:1 Mentorship

    This six or twelve month 1:1 mentorship is a bespoke experience where you will work directly with Jo to heal your relationship to your body, reclaim your sexuality so that you can create change from your deepest power & pleasure.

    Jo takes an intimate number of clients per year.

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  • Couples Coaching

    Relationship Revolution is the most immersive and transformative couples coaching experience for curious, heart-led beings who are committed to creating a conscious life filled with deep connection, healthy relationships, and erotic aliveness and vitality.

    Jo supports an intimate number of couples per year.

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AS SEEN IN

“Sexuality is not a leisure or part-time activity. It is a way of being.”

— Alexander Lowen

Client Love

  • "Jo has a way of creating a sacred space that allows you to feel your most true self. She is the mix of professional, sensual, intelligent, and playful. She guided me to go deep into areas I wasn't expecting to go. Our Bougie Bruja™ Breakthrough Day was perfect!"

    Nina K., Women’s Life Coach

  • "I instantly felt safe with Jo from the moment I met her. It feels like you're having coffee with a friend over zoom. Somehow, she begins to lead and guide you through some really hard work, all while tenderly holding you the entire time."

    Heather Y, Spiritual Mentor for Women

  • "Jo transformed my relationship with sex and sensuality. It used to feel so disempowering, complex, confusing, taboo, and shameful, but she showed me how it is a vital part of well-being."

    Katrina V, Multi-Disciplinary Artist & Life Coach

  • "Jo has been a huge catalyst at empowering me and my womanhood."

    Emily W. UX Designer

  • "Jo has helped me move past any challenges, obstacles, or fears through trust built in sessions and homeplay practices that pushed me out of my comfort zone and into my healing zone."

    Venus C., Career Coach

You deserve a well-lived, well-loved, and well-f*cked life aligned with your highest values and deepest desires.

I am committed to opening you up to the possibility of a more creative dance with the universe—supporting you in creating a life you deeply love.

To engage in the art of erotic living is to surrender to the present moment, to be fully immersed in the ecstasy of the here and now.