Hot Wet Summer Camp

Hot Wet Summer Camp is a 6-week sensual healing journey for women in midlife who are ready to use self-pleasure as a path to self-love, nervous system repair, and erotic reclamation.

Camp starts June 29th

You are deserving of pleasure, sensual bliss, and freedom to explore your pleasure in your body.

What if I told you that self-pleasure IS a radical act of self-care and self-love?

Allow your belly to soften and expand as your lungs fill with oxygen.

Pause and sit with the feeling of fullness. Feel your erotic energy and innate sensuality to take up space.

When your cells are satisfied, invite your gorgeous being to empty out…let go…release.

Can you feel that?

That delicious ease of presence? The simple, yet revolutionary act of coming home to your body.

This is why we’re here.

To accept the invitation to engage all of our senses in ways we’ve forgotten are even possible.

To remember how to embody our juicy, vibrant, sensual essence.

To be witnessed in our shadow and in our light.

To be validated and held by a sisterhood of soulful rebels.

And to celebrate, have fun, and get messy and explore pleasure that fuels your body and soul.

What is hot wet summer camp?

HOT WET SUMMER CAMP ‘25 is…

  • An intimate (no more than 8 women) 6 week hybrid workshop experience awakening your authentic sensuality.

  • Where you get to know and love your body as an instrument of love, wisdom, and magic.

  • A sacred space to slow down and connect with your body and soul through your pussy.

  • A safe and brave space where your unique sensual expression can be cultivated and nourished to thrive.

  • Where you get to drop into your divine pleasure to sooth your nervous system.

  • A safe space where you get to learn how to tune into your body’s deepest desires and turn ons.

In here, we also allow ourselves to be vulnerable and real, where you don't have to pretend to be something you're not, to ask for support and guidance, and to show up authentically in all your humanness.

This is the place where you get to experience the uplifting vibration of sisterhood and community where sexuality is talked about in a positive and non-judgemental way.

Hot Wet Summer Camp is not your average self-love program.

This is a sensual rebellion. A soul revival for women in their midlife.

A sacred invitation to come home to yourself—through your body.

This is where midlife becomes a portal, not a crisis.

Where your sexuality becomes sacred, not shameful.

Where your pleasure becomes a resource, a medicine,—not an afterthought.

And it all begins with the radical act of self-pleasure.

Deep down, you know your sensuality is your greatest source of power.

It’s an aliveness you’ve felt before—

in the way your hips moved when no one was watching,

in a breath that softened something deep inside,

in those rare moments you touched yourself without shame… and felt home.

This is your return.

To the wisdom of your body.

To the truth of your desire.

To a life where your pleasure becomes a resource, a medicine—not an afterthought.

IN HOT WET SUMMER CAMP YOU WILL…

  • Reclaim your body as a place of joy, wisdom, and devotion

  • Use self-pleasure as a healing ritual to release shame and reconnect to your sensual power

  • Rewire patterns of over-functioning and self-abandonment through nervous system-based practices

  • Play, explore, and soften into a relationship with your pussy that feels reverent, raw, and alive

  • Be held in an intimate circle of women and femmes on the same journey toward wholeness

No pretending. No performance. No pressure.

Just your real, radiant, messy, magnificent self.

Hot Wet Summer Camp is for the woman in her midlife who has a good life—
but secretly craves more aliveness, sensual pleasure, more her.

Does any of this resonate?

You’ve built a successful career, raised a family, and maintained a household.

You’ve attended wellness retreats, practiced yoga, and perhaps even explored meditation. 

You feel disconnected from your sensuality, unsure of how to access desire without guilt, shame, or effort.

You know that pleasure isn’t just physical—it’s spiritual.

Sacred.

It’s how your body prays. How your soul speaks.

You’ve just never been given a space to explore it like that.

Hot Wet Summer Camp isn’t just about sex—it’s about learning how to let pleasure resource you. This is where you learn how to use self-pleasure as a medicine that softens your nervous system and opens you to aliveness.

This is for you if you want to…

  • Feel safe in your body again—without judgment, pressure, or performance

  • Release the fear, shame, and judgement that has kept you feeling small and disempowered in your relationships, your body, and your life.

  • Play and explore your sacred sensual and sexual self.

  • Experience more pleasure, more satisfaction, deeper connection, and appreciation of her body and soul.

  • Get out of your head and into your body to experience soul shaking orgasms.

  • Reclaim your sexual power, freedom, and full expression—on your terms.

  • Bring pleasure and creativity into your work and life—so you do less striving and more receiving.

  • And yes…

    MAKE LOVE TO YOURSELF DELICIOUSLY AND FUCK YOURSELF DELIRIOUSLY

Together we’ll explore:

Each week, we’ll gather in sacred space—where your body gets to lead.

Through breath, movement, guided self-pleasure, and conversation, you’ll build a relationship with your sensuality that is rooted, powerful, and completely your own.

  • Open Ceremony is in person in the Bougie Bruja Clubhaus.

    We begin by creating a foundation of safety and radical self-love—both in your body and in the group.

    Through breathwork, grounding practices, and ritual, you’ll start to settle your nervous system and connect with your sensual self in a space that’s shame-free, supportive, and sacred.

  • We go deep into your physical, emotional, and energetic pleasure map. Learn how your body was conditioned not to feel, and how to begin unwinding numbness, guilt, and overthinking.

    You’ll explore self-touch as a tool for healing, attunement, and reawakening sensation.

  • This week is all about befriending the body. Learn how to cultivate an intentional and conscious connection with your pussy by activating your sacred pleasure portal.

  • Build your own self-pleasure ritual—not for performance or climax, but for nourishment. You’ll learn how to approach self-pleasure as a spiritual and somatic tool to rewire stress patterns, regulate your system, and open to receiving with ease.

  • Connect with your primal and original sexual impulses: the raw, intense, desirous, and sacred part of your sexuality.

  • Our closing ceremony will be in person in the Bougie Bruja Clubhaus, we’ll explore the practice of sex magic—using your arousal energy as fuel for creative power, manifestation, and embodiment. You’ll leave with a ritual to carry forward and a closing ceremony to honor the version of you that said yes.

“I used to think pleasure was something reserved for other people—or something I needed someone else to give me. Now? It’s mine. My relationship with my body and my pussy is sacred now. This experience was liberating, healing, and honestly, delicious.”

— Aisha, 43

Why am I offering this?

In the summer of 2020, I embarked on the most profound healing and reclamation of power I’d ever known.

I ended a 12-year marriage in the middle of a global pandemic, civil unrest, economic upheaval, and political chaos—while becoming the primary provider, caregiver, and teacher for my kids.

It was the kind of rupture that brings you to your knees.

And in the middle of all that grief, stress, and uncertainty… I found something sacred. I found self-pleasure.

Not as a quick release. Not as something secret or shameful. But as a healing. A homecoming. A daily act of devotion that reminded me I was still alive. Still worthy. Still in love with being in my body.

It became my anchor. My medicine. My prayer.

Looking back, I can say with full truth: self-pleasure saved my soul.

It brought me back to the knowing that we all embody love.

Sharing this on Instagram or in passing conversations has never felt like enough. Because the wisdom I’ve gained through these practices lives in my body. It’s layered. It’s textured. And it’s meant to be shared in sacred space.

That’s why I created Hot Wet Summer Camp.

Because this work needs to be felt. Witnessed. Held.

And because right now, more than ever, the world is trying to pull us out of our bodies.

We are navigating a time of chronic burnout, rising fascism, algorithmic overwhelm, and constant pressure to perform or produce. And when women—especially women in midlife—are disconnected from their bodies, we lose access to the very power that can change everything:

Our intuition.

Our pleasure.

Our truth.

Our embodied leadership.

Hot Wet Summer Camp is my resistance. It’s my offering.

It’s a space where we remember that pleasure is not frivolous—it’s foundational. And when we are rooted in our pleasure, we are unstoppable.

Meet your camp counselor

Hey love, I’m Portia.

Sexual trauma survivor. Sensual embodiment coach. Matriarch. Mischief-maker. Identity doula. Mid-wife to women in midlife.

First-generation Filipina. Mother of two queer, brilliant humans.

And a woman who had to reclaim her body—again and again.

My children are my greatest teachers, and they’re the reason I do this work: so they grow up in a world where embodiment, pleasure, and emotional honesty are sacred—not shameful.

For most of my life, I was at war with my body.

Pleasure felt foreign, indulgent—something meant for other people.

I felt broken. Disconnected. Caught in cycles of shame, self-abandonment, and performance.

Everything changed when I began working with self-pleasure, ritual, and sacred sexuality—not as a means to an end, but as a path back to myself.

I discovered that pleasure isn’t just a feeling—it’s a resource. A medicine. One of the most nourishing forms of self-care I’ve ever known.

That’s when I stopped trying to “fix” myself and started learning how to feel.

This journey has been raw, real, and soul-shaking. It’s transformed how I mother, how I love, how I lead, and how I show up in the world.

I created Hot Wet Summer Camp because I know how healing it is to be in a space where you can touch yourself without shame, breathe into sensation without judgment, and feel deeply at home in your body again.

This isn’t about performance. It’s about practice.

It’s not about being “good at sex.” It’s about becoming fluent in you.

In this space, I’m not here to fix you.

I’m here to walk with you—tenderly, truthfully—back to the part of you that was never lost. Just waiting.

The nitty gritty details:

2x 2 hr in person workshop sessions

4x 90 min Virtual Workshop Sessions w/Portia (talk & theory + Q&A + Live Guided Practices)

($4000 value)

A private online community where you and the other campers can come to brag, be witnessed, get support while you discover all of you

(priceless)

Sensual Orientation Pack which includes Chakrubs crystal pleasure toy + other goodies

($250 value)

Your investment:

Pay in Full $1997

2 Payments of $1111

Still have questions?

I’ve got you babe.

  • I know exactly how that feels, I’ve been in your shoes but I also know how powerful and incredible this work is so I invite you to lean into the part of you that knows this is going to be the best investment of your life! Let the leader of love in you guide you into this next chapter.

  • Where will hot wet summer camp be held?

    Everything is online in my Zoom Room and you’ll be in the privacy of your own home to touch yourself, be with yourself, and all that deliciousness.

  • ✻ June 29th at 2PM PT Camp Orientation + Open Ceremony (this session is a mini -retreat at The Bougie Bruja Clubhaus, plan for a 3 hour session)

    ✻ July 8th at 4PM PT The Anatomy of Pleasure

    ✻ July 15th at 4PM PT Body Love & Conscious Connection

    ✻ July 22nd 4PM PT Holistic Self Pleasure Practice

    ✻ July 29th at 4PM PT Sexual Wholeness & Sexual Expression

    ✻ August 3th at 2PM PT Closing Ceremony & Sex Magic for Manifesting (this session is a mini -retreat at The Bougie Bruja Clubhaus, plan for a 3 hour session)

  • Each week with the exception of Open Ceremony and Closing Ceremony, we’ll get comfy and cozy for a 90 minute video session through Zoom, where I, your camp counselor will kick us off with talk and theory.

    The first half of each session will be be open, raw, unfiltered interaction about the topics introduced along with whatever comes bursting up for you.

    The second half we drop out of our minds and into our bodies with a sensual embodiment or self-pleasure practice.

  • This experience is open to women and femmes who have pussies & want to expand their pleasure.

    I identify as a bi-sexual and am currently in training to hold space for gender expansive people in my work.

    You are more than welcome to join if you are okay with me being an active learner who is very open to feedback.

  • Yes! My kids are queer. I myself identify as a queer bisexual woman and welcome all sexual orientations to be part of the mischief.

  • All calls are recorded so you can catch the replay, but it is highly recommended that you are present with the group throughout the entire experience.

  • Skin friendly oil (jojoba, almond, coconut).

    Your messy, curious, and beautiful self.